Yeah, I think that is this. The central part of the matter, the central part of the matter is what people think. Marriage is, and it is usually a very strong thing that is supposed to override all other quarrels, so that you stay married. and so no I wasn’t comparing, I am saying it doesn’t matter who you get married to you. There is the assumption you will. You will try everything you can do to make the marriage work at almost any cost. this is something that this whole concept it is very, it’s a thing. It’s a thing, it’s a good thing. Sometimes it’s a good thing. Sometimes good, but being married, but it could be very stressful. No matter who you’re married to, because of these assumptions that you have been placed in this relationship. And that you’re going to do any almost anything. It takes meaning, you will be unhappy for a little bit. That’s okay, you will. You will be unhappy for a long time. That’s okay. You will be unhappy again for a short period of time. That’s okay as long as it is for the relationship. This is the part, the part that is bothersome.That is very, very questionable to me. and this comes up with any person.
throughout history and I think through most cultures, marriage is for the woman. It’s supposed to be for both.But primarily it’s for the woman’s comfort. But this is my take on it.And I i’m sure there are other opinions.